Managing the Emotions of Moving
For many seniors, a home has been a place to raise a family and create lasting memories. For them, downsizing may involve more than just changing addresses. It can mean sifting through decades of accumulated items that are the threads of life. So, the process of downsizing isn’t merely logistical; it’s also emotional.
Some ideas to keep in mind to help you manage the emotions of this move may include:
Don’t go it alone
Transitioning to a smaller living space is a significant undertaking at any age. Enlisting support from friends or loved ones not only eases the physical burden but also provides emotional comfort. For a more comprehensive approach, some seniors may benefit from the expertise of a senior move manager who can oversee the entire process or focus on specific aspects as needed.
Accept the emotions
Recognizing—and allowing—the emotions that can come about during the moving process can help make the transition easier. There may be sorrow and sadness as memories associated with the years spent in the home surface. When you’re an ear to listen and an arm to support, you’re a more valuable part of the move.
Keep a focus on the future
A downsized household will likely have fewer responsibilities and allow more time to enjoy friends —new and old—activities and adventures. A list of all the reasons to be excited about the move, and plans for future experiences, can remind the homeowner of what will be great about the time ahead.
Start small
The task of downsizing may seem overwhelming: so many things, so much to do. Help your client by having them focus first on smaller, easier-toaccomplish things, or by breaking larger efforts into smaller chunks—one drawer, one cupboard, one side of a closet. They’ll not only feel that the task is easier, they’ll more quickly feel a sense of accomplishment.
If you are thinking about preparing your home for the market, reach out to me for a free 30 min Home Salability Assessment. I will come out to your home and give you tips and tricks on what to do to get your home ready for the market. (267) 397-6291 or at the office 215-395-6277.